What if.... and a big Congratulations to my sweet husband!

This morning I was asked to do car rider duty for a teacher that called in sick... as I stood out there in the sleet/snow opening doors for our little champions I observed a dad dropping off his little girl and as he leaned over to kiss her bye he told her how much he loved her and to have a great day.. ofcourse that immediately made me smile... there's just something so sweet about a daddy and his daughter but also it made me think to myself that's the first time I had seen something like that this particular morning... as I continued to observe I noticed that there were far fewer parents actually telling their children goodbye, they loved them, and to have a great day.. actually there were alot of parents on cell phones, putting on makeup, or bickering amongst each other... As I saw a little boy wave bye to his mom and say " I love you" and her continue to put on her mascara then drive off... my heart broke for that little boy as he walked on.. was her mascara really that important that she couldn't take two seconds to say I love you? I started to think of all the mornings I am running late and drop off the boys and just rush out and scream I love you and dash. What if that was the last time I saw them? The whole morning I couldn't stop thinking of some of the mornings Jackson tried to hug me and I would just say I love you and dash on to not be late or so he wouldn't cry because I would be leaving..I am going to make a concious effort to make sure that I hug, kiss and make sure they know how much I love them every morning I leave. 
 On a positive note since I've last written we've been pretty busy around the Green house. Matthew has been working in Vicksburg and coming back and forth on the weekends. They have a pretty big job at a nuclear plant and they have been preparing for months for this. It is very close to starting so we haven't seen him much lately and it's been really tough. I usually do really well during the week because the boys keep me so busy but I definitely don't like spending the weekends without him.I really just don't like spending any day without him. We were supposed to visit him this weekend since we have a 3 day weekend but we got a nice little surprise today. He called me early this morning to tell me that he is now a superintendent instead of a foreman and would be coming home tomorrow!! He sounded really excited! I am not exactly sure what he will be doing other then running the crew on this particular job but I know it is going to add on a lot more responsibilities. I am so very proud of him but I am not surprised to hear this. He is such a hardworker and is so smart. It's not every day that you can find someone who is smart, funny, good with people, hardworking, and passionate all in one body to do that kind of work. I would say extremely handsome but I really don't think the men at Barnhartt really care what he looks like ;) He deserves this and I am so glad that he is doing something he enjoys so much. I am really proud of you baby! He has made so many sacrificies for us in taking this new job. It is not easy being away from the ones you love. He is such an amazing father and I can't imagine how it must feel to be away from these boys. I suffer being away from them 8 hours out of the day so I can't even stomach a week but I do know that he is doing this for us. I can't thank him enough! I will say that facetime has made this process a little easier because I can atleast see him. With that in mind I better get some sleep so I can prepare for my sweet hubbs's arrival!

With a new year comes a new me!

It has been almost 4 months since I have written ... Sunday afternoon after Matthew left for Vicksburg( long story that I will share later) I had a "moment" with Jackson that made me realize I needed to dedicate more time to my blog... it was nap time.. my sweet Lucas went down like he always does and Jackson refused to sleep... I was in such a hurry to get him to nap because the house was turned upside down and I really needed to clean and I was so frustrated that I couldn't get him to sleep... As I am sitting in his rocking chair impatiently waiting as he is crying and standing in his crib with his arms reached out for me saying "mama" I sigh irritated and go over to pick him up because honestly what mother can refuse that and as soon as I get close enough to him he wraps his little arms around my neck so tight and just hugs me like I haven't been hugged in quite a while... I sat in the rocking chair and rocked him for over an hour.  He held me so tight, patting me on the back as I rocked him and he had the biggest smile on his face. I laughed at the fact that he wanted to be rocked like a baby. So, I held him like a baby and rocked him.. He looked so peaceful and happy and he literally fell asleep within minutes.. I couldn't help but get angry with myself.. the fact that I was frustrated and irritated with this sweet boy because I wanted to clean. All he wanted was for his mother to hold him for a little bit..  As I just stared at him I couldn't help but tear up and think of the last time me and Jackson had a moment like this?As I sat there staring at his beautiful face I honestly couldn't remember..I have spent every spare moment in the past year trying to get things done, fixed, cleaned, etc that I have completely neglected to enjoy and treasure all those irreplaceable moments that I should be cherising with these two precious gifts. In that moment I realized that there was nothing in this world more important than spending that time with my precious baby boy. So I sat there and held him as he slept. I took a mental picture of that moment and prayed to God that he always keeps that memory  of us in my heart so I could close my eyes at any moment and remember him exactly this way and all those special moments we shared. As I watched him sleep  I realized that the baby boy I was rocking was not a baby anymore but a smart, funny, caring, little boy that can now feed himself, help his mommy with his brother, and would be two years old in less then 3 months... I can not comprehend why I get so emotional thinking about this.. I know it's part of life.. they have to grow up but it's something I am having an extremely difficult time coping with. It was so upsetting that I couldn't remember more.. I just asked myself over and over again.. where have these last two years gone? Why have I not stopped what I was doing more often over the past year to just hold and spend genuine quality time with him?? I felt a ridiculous amount of guilt at that moment.. It had literally been months since I had last rocked or held him like that. What's worse was that I had alot of those moments with Jackson when he was an infant but I have had very few with Lucas and he will be 1 in just a few weeks..That thought alone sends me into another emotional frenzy.. I have become so consumed with the fast paced routine that I think all us working mothers get in...You wake up, rush to work, rush home, rush to feed kids, bathe and put to sleep,rush to get ready for tomorrow and bed... do it all over again the next day and there goes your years.. I make an effort everyday to spend time with the boys whether it be us playing, reading,watching cartoons together, or  eating. What I realized at that moment as I held him was even tho I was doing all those things with the boys I might have been there physically but mentally I was thinking of all the things that needed to be done and not really giving them my complete undivided attention. All I can think of is that life is so short and these precious moments are something we will NEVER get back.. am I doing everything I can to truly enjoy every minute I have with my babies while they are babies? Every year I make a list of New Years resolutions that get ignored.. this year I am not making a list of resolutions.. this year I am making a lifestyle change..I am not going to sweat the little stuff and enjoy life to the fullest.I am going to eat healthier and get fit so I feel good and have the energy to be the mom and wife I want to be.  I am going to take more naps with my children. The boys and I will get more involved with church even if Matthew can't be. I will get more organized around the house so I have to clean alot less during the day and every moment I have with my children and husband will be dedicated to them. If I can offer any advice to new mothers with infants.. enjoy every single moment..years down the road the only thing that will matter will be the memories we have of all the moments we shared. I have been told this since Jackson was born and I guess I heard everyone but didn't really listen..Jackson, I hear you loud and clear! It took someone so little to make me see something so big. Since that day I have caught myself stopping and taking mental pictures and embedding that memory in me hoping I never forget..

My heart grew a little more today...

Today has been such a long day... I have not felt well the past few days and the boys have been sick too.... I had a migraine that literally almost made me pull over on the way home from work... our special instructor comes on Wednesdays so I was running late and had to meet my mom there with the boys... I hate running late.. it really stresses me out.. When I walked in Jackson's face lit up... ran and gave me the biggest hug that almost made my headache go away! That little boy owns my heart... both my boys do... He did so great with the special instructor today.. He is getting great at puzzles and he knows all his animals :)He is signing great and really advancing vocally... He even started eating with a spoon last night all by himself! He is growing so incredibly fast and really makes me sad..  Poor Lucas has been sick the past few days... I can't figure out if it's a stomach virus or just these awful allergies... this evening I was getting ready to feed the boys and Lucas just starts projectile vomiting... I just can't catch a break this week..  Jackson was so sweet tho.. he got scared and worried over his baby brother and as I was on the floor cleaning up he ran to get his tshirt to help me clean... He overwhelms my heart... Just when I think I can't love that little boy any more he does something else...I can't even describe how he makes me feel when he crawls in my lap with a book for me to read to him... being a mother is a blessing I do not deserve but thank God everyday for allowing me to raise these little boys...I think all the stress I am under is making me an emotional mess! I think it's bed time...

 This was Jackson tonight as he walked around with the drum he got stuck around him ;)

                          Lucas before bedtime in his big brothers size 18 mths cowboy pjs :)

It's been a while...

It's been quite a while since I last wrote... It's been crazy busy with Matthew being out of town working and me starting Graduate School which is going great by the way! I love the classes and my professor and it's all applicable to everything I am doing. The boys are doing fantastic and getting bigger by the minute!Lucas has three teeth on bottom and two coming out on top! He is military crawling all over the house now! He is absolutely precious and I fall more in love with him everyday!! He has the sweetest personality- just when I thought I couldn't love any more this boy sucks more out of me! Jackson got bit by ants a few weeks ago and his poor legs look just pitiful not to mention he got bit on his eye and that boy is just a hot mess! It's all slowly clearing up and maybe I will break down and give him a hair cut one of these days.. I keep saying I will do it but can't get the guts to do it! I got a new student Monday and he is the sweetest little boy! He is so timid but I got him to come out of his shell today and it's been such a joy! I am so very blessed with a job I truly enjoy!

We baptized Lucas on August 16th and here are some pics: It was originally planned for the 8th which was my birthday but Matthew had a 500 lb rod hit his leg and we decided it was best to postpone it :) We had a wonderful time with family from out of town and I couldn't have asked for a more perfect day!

                                           My Aunt's made his cake :) It was delicious!

                                            It was impossible to get a good family picture!

                                                 Lucas with his aunt/ godmother :)

Jackson just had a blast with his cousins on the water slide... the food was delicious, the company was great and we just had the best time!

They're here!

My grandmother, Great- Aunt, Aunt and cousin all arrived safely yesterday from Mexico. We are thrilled to have them here and my grandmother back. We will definitely be having a fun few weeks while they are here. We had a cake to celebrate my birthday and had a great time visiting! I love my family!

                                               Lucas was laughing at his big brother :)

                                     My boys 16 months & 6 months and mommy turned 26

                                            Jackson loved feeling the fan blow on his face ;)

we're seeing a change!

I am so beyond thrilled to announce that Jackson is finally sucking! It has been almost 3 months since his palatte surgery and he is using no spill cups! I am so proud of him and am so extremely thankful! The therapists have helped tremedously. He is definitely becoming more vocal and is showing us that he knows a good bit of vocabulary already. It has been a busy few weeks with me starting work and Matthew getting hurt at work. A 500 pound beam flew off a crane and hit his leg and we're so blessed that it just bruised it and didn't break it. God is GOOD!

They did it again...

My boys managed to almost give me a heartattack! It's been a few days since my last update so I will catch everyone up to speed... Matthew had to take off work for a few days due to an eye infection. In those days we managed to rearrange the living room, combine the boys in the same room and make Lucas's room into a play room! I was really nervous about doing it but so far it is working out. I love seeing those boys together and keeps all the toys in one room. Lucas is growing way too fast! It is so funny to sit back and watch him. He looks up to Jackson and wants to imitate everything he does. This afternoon I heard Lucas screaming in the monitor and when walk in their room Jackson is hanging from the curtain and Lucas is pulling himself up on the mobile! I didn't know who to go after first! Lucas will be crawling before he can even sit on his own! He has the same problem Jackson had, his torso is so heavy he tips to the side. They have napped great together tho so we'll see how tonight goes! I just love those little boys so much... I honestly can't even imagine my life without them or hw I was even happy before they came along.. Some good news, I got accepted to Grad school at Ole Miss so I will be beginning my Masters program this fall. I am really excited about it and hoping that I actually stick with it! Lucas turned 6 months yesterday and even tho it will be a day late I will make him a cake!  Pics to come..